frustration!!!

[dan1tkd]

To be more specific sexual frustration. I'm not good at dealing with it. I know nothing along those lines are going to happen between the wife and I anytime soon. I just hope it does not get the best of me and I go out and do something that will cause more damage than good. Just needed to vent because it is starting to weigh heavy on me.

[Lena]

awww.... sorry you are feeling so frustrated Dan!!
You can vent whenever you need to!!

[tin_heart_gal]

Dan,

Ok, so I am about to be totally honest with you.
I saw your post on the other site.

I don't know why your wife isn't putting out,
Not sure if it is low horemones, or if she is witholding it for some reason.

You say you don't want an affair, cause your afraid it ill jeapordize your relationship,
good man, not many guys will stop and think BEFORE doing it.
They just go out, find a piece and have at it, when the wife finds out THEN they decide, "hmm, maybe that wasn't such a good idea."

If you are looking for just the release, there are ways to achieve that.
No, I am not accusing you of being stupid or not knowing, and I know it gets old after a while.

But..I mean let's face it, your options are pretty limited.
You don't want an affair, but your frustrated,
well that only leaves one real option in my vision.

Now there are a nice assortment of male toys,
Have you ever thought about those to help switch it up?
I am not suggesting a blow up sheep doll, cause lets face it,
that wuld be hard to explain to anyone.
" No honey, it is just a prop for the company christmas play, HONEST!"

If you go an have an affair, well, then youhave to deal with the guilt and
the possibility of seriously ruining a relationship.

I wish I had the answer for ya hon, I don't though.

[dan1tkd]

I am not suggesting a blow up sheep doll, cause lets face it,
that wuld be hard to explain to anyone.
" No honey, it is just a prop for the company christmas play, HONEST!"

Thanks for the laugh I needed that.

The issue with my wife is emotional. We are in the middle of piecing our marriage back together and she is just not ready for that level of intimacy yet. I'm trying to be understanding and considerate of her feelings. Sometimes the male in me gets the best of me.

[LadyMoon]

I think it's fantastic that you were here to vent.. and I hope you can work it out.. Yes, be considerate to her feelings. If you are not it could create much larger problems in the long run.. (trust me on that one)

[anewbeginning]

Good luck Dan... I hope it works out for you... I know how the frustration is... I have been since August when I screwed up.. can't find anyone who makes me feel like he did... and I have looked... lol..